One of the mails sent by someone to his beloved...
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Thanks for writing this note to me. This is what I was waiting to come from you for so long. I wish, hope & pray that we can have many more such open discussions & end every conclusion with a decision & not leave room for any further confusion lying with anyone of us.

You've raised v. vital & valid points. I wish to discuss them at length whenever we're together. & yep, let us reach a conclusion every other time & make a common opinion about the way we want to lead our life (not lives) & whatever changes we need to make in ourselves. I want to be as flexible as you want me to, for you & for none else; So suggest me (PLEASE), at every point of time if I'm wrong, your opinions, choices & wishes.

But, I'd like to raise only one issue for your thought explorations; that, plans are not meant to be followed as it is. Nopes, they need to be reevaluated at every step of implementation & if some flaw/ irregularity is found, those needs to be discussed with the planner(s). Thaz the kind of feedback every planner expects (& thaz the reason, implementers are part of the planning team in better organizations.). Hence, a plan can be revised whenever a need is risen.

My point in stating all this is that, you can have a long-term plan but that needs to be implemented with modifications whenever required. You can a have job but whenever you feel that you'd prefer to raise our kids rather than doing a job, you can quit that job; thaz perfectly fine with me. But you must achieve whatever you aspire to; rather than having some kind of dissatisfaction due to the ways of leading our life.

Besides, let’s define the rules of this game of discussions, which could be as follows (pl. offer any modifications, if you like):
1. Open discussions.
2. Right to say & conclude in any manner to our own way of analysis & understanding. (No name calling. It would the actions of individuals which can be discussed & not the individuals.)
3. No discussions on our parents & immediate family members (of both of us. coz there's nothing that can be done to change them as they've every right to have their own choices in their life.)
4. End every discussion with a recap & a COMMON decision we make.
5. The decision is further open to discussion, but till any further discussion he previous decision has to be followed.

I want you mail me frequently, to talk about our ways of thinking & doing things, our family & how much we love it, hobbies, likes & DISLLKES, our friends & foes, etc.

Keep mailing,

Bye

PS: don't forget 25 pg.s a day. The next book must be "Men are from Mars " & ya i'll write more on achievement later today. It would be about that you can’t have everything in your life. You need to sacrifice, whichever way you pursue your life. I meant we must prioritize what we want, so that whenever we need to choose one out of a few, we don’t waste much time in making a choice & that choice is well thought upon so as you choose sth which you've wished to for too long or too much, sacrificing sth which is not as important & not as craved for as compared to the choice you've made. This way, you'll be more satisfied from life. (Want to write more about it now, but have some work to do. :-( so more later.)

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She earlier worte.....

Hi,

Do u really think that I never used to think about my future life, no it is not so.

U said that it hurts u that u think of 10 years later and I don't think even of 10 min later, I know to achieve the highest position in life or to achieve success this is very necessary but sometimes what happens ki ham apne goal ko achieve karne me itne busy ho jate hai ki bahut kuch peeche chod dete hai. And at last when we r at top then we find ourselves all alone.

I am a normal girl and I want to live every moment of my life with people around me, I want to be with them; not ahead of them.

Achieving success is not a big deal any body who works hard can achieve success but living our relations is a big achievement in life, and I want to spend my maximum time with my life partner. Everything else is secondary for me; even my success, my job, anything.
I never ever want that a time comes when we both are busy with our jobs and at that time even when we want to spend time with each other we don't have time. Not only us but with all of my new and old relations.

I don't say that I am not interested in doing a job; I'm, but the job should be such that I can devote sufficient time to my husband and to my family. I use to think like this.

I don't want u to change as I like u the way u r; aur vase bhi opposite attracts. I always want to have a person like u as my life partner.

BYE