One of the mails sent by someone to his beloved...
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Thanks for writing this note to me. This is what I was waiting to come from you for so long. I wish, hope & pray that we can have many more such open discussions & end every conclusion with a decision & not leave room for any further confusion lying with anyone of us.

You've raised v. vital & valid points. I wish to discuss them at length whenever we're together. & yep, let us reach a conclusion every other time & make a common opinion about the way we want to lead our life (not lives) & whatever changes we need to make in ourselves. I want to be as flexible as you want me to, for you & for none else; So suggest me (PLEASE), at every point of time if I'm wrong, your opinions, choices & wishes.

But, I'd like to raise only one issue for your thought explorations; that, plans are not meant to be followed as it is. Nopes, they need to be reevaluated at every step of implementation & if some flaw/ irregularity is found, those needs to be discussed with the planner(s). Thaz the kind of feedback every planner expects (& thaz the reason, implementers are part of the planning team in better organizations.). Hence, a plan can be revised whenever a need is risen.

My point in stating all this is that, you can have a long-term plan but that needs to be implemented with modifications whenever required. You can a have job but whenever you feel that you'd prefer to raise our kids rather than doing a job, you can quit that job; thaz perfectly fine with me. But you must achieve whatever you aspire to; rather than having some kind of dissatisfaction due to the ways of leading our life.

Besides, let’s define the rules of this game of discussions, which could be as follows (pl. offer any modifications, if you like):
1. Open discussions.
2. Right to say & conclude in any manner to our own way of analysis & understanding. (No name calling. It would the actions of individuals which can be discussed & not the individuals.)
3. No discussions on our parents & immediate family members (of both of us. coz there's nothing that can be done to change them as they've every right to have their own choices in their life.)
4. End every discussion with a recap & a COMMON decision we make.
5. The decision is further open to discussion, but till any further discussion he previous decision has to be followed.

I want you mail me frequently, to talk about our ways of thinking & doing things, our family & how much we love it, hobbies, likes & DISLLKES, our friends & foes, etc.

Keep mailing,

Bye

PS: don't forget 25 pg.s a day. The next book must be "Men are from Mars " & ya i'll write more on achievement later today. It would be about that you can’t have everything in your life. You need to sacrifice, whichever way you pursue your life. I meant we must prioritize what we want, so that whenever we need to choose one out of a few, we don’t waste much time in making a choice & that choice is well thought upon so as you choose sth which you've wished to for too long or too much, sacrificing sth which is not as important & not as craved for as compared to the choice you've made. This way, you'll be more satisfied from life. (Want to write more about it now, but have some work to do. :-( so more later.)

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She earlier worte.....

Hi,

Do u really think that I never used to think about my future life, no it is not so.

U said that it hurts u that u think of 10 years later and I don't think even of 10 min later, I know to achieve the highest position in life or to achieve success this is very necessary but sometimes what happens ki ham apne goal ko achieve karne me itne busy ho jate hai ki bahut kuch peeche chod dete hai. And at last when we r at top then we find ourselves all alone.

I am a normal girl and I want to live every moment of my life with people around me, I want to be with them; not ahead of them.

Achieving success is not a big deal any body who works hard can achieve success but living our relations is a big achievement in life, and I want to spend my maximum time with my life partner. Everything else is secondary for me; even my success, my job, anything.
I never ever want that a time comes when we both are busy with our jobs and at that time even when we want to spend time with each other we don't have time. Not only us but with all of my new and old relations.

I don't say that I am not interested in doing a job; I'm, but the job should be such that I can devote sufficient time to my husband and to my family. I use to think like this.

I don't want u to change as I like u the way u r; aur vase bhi opposite attracts. I always want to have a person like u as my life partner.

BYE

Another post, though after so many months, on successful organizations.

Success is, as they say, a journey; hence, when you're moving in a large group (a large organization), you need to make sure that everyone is on board & share the objectives of this journey. The employees which are aware & share/ own the obejctives would continue this journey; many may not & will discontinue to board another ship heading to a different direction.

The issue I want to take up this time is:

Can we make majority of co-travellers continue for longer durations in view of so frequent updations in the obejctives of journey.

I will explore to find some cases & some probable solutions as well.

Successful organizaitons

How much successful a organization/ department is depends on it's productivity w.r.t. to others. This makes sense to me as:

a. Finally resources will flow to the most productive Organization/ group/ department because it will be able to transform resources to results in the best possible manner.
b. Since they will produce results the fastest, they will be seen as the most successful and will attract the best brains leading to a unendng cycle.
c. This is seen as a core competence - thus attracting investments (in terms of funds, efforts, initiatives).

But this requires constant innovation and constantly working at reducing the amount of resources employed to produce the result (including reducing the wastage).

Help me friends.....

Help me friends in knowing myself better. It says I'm 40% normal (No clue about the normal % which is called normal here). Tell me quickly (& check it out about yourself & lemme know).


Blogthings - You Are 40% Normal: "How Normal Are You?

You Are 40% Normal
(Somewhat Normal)

While some of your behavior is quite normal...
Other things you do are downright strange
You've got a little of your freak going on
But you mostly keep your weirdness to yourself"

Suggestions for a friend who's getting married

While thinking about changes one undergoes while/ after marrying (I'm still unmarried, I know, but still, I can simulate; not everything, but my thoughts of course), I thought to type in something for posterior use. (Do remind me about it at the right time my friends.)

The couple should have common priority list except for their top priority. Both of them should have different top priority.

Ya, don't get shocked. They should have his/ her spouse on the top of the list; Wife should have the husband & Husband should have the wife at the top of the priority list.

Its to be considered that, one who's got a different set of people in his life & (of course, not all of a sudden, but definitely out of practice) different routine/ habits with different influences, shall take time to change: Change habits/ attitude to give room for new partner in life; to start new lifestyle/ regime; & one of the most important, accommodating him/ her at the top priority.

will add more later......

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Now you can understand that why it tooks so long to publish the second post.

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PROCRASTINATOR'S CREED
1. I believe that if anything is worth doing, it would have been done already.
2. I shall never move quickly, except to avoid more work or find excuses.
3. I will never rush into a job without a lifetime of consideration.
4. I shall meet all of my dead lines directly in proportion to the amount of bodily injury I could expect to receive from missing them.
5. I firmly believe that tomorrow holds the possibility for new technologies, astounding discoveries, and a reprieve from my obligations.
6. I truly believe that all deadlines are unreasonable regardless of the amount of time givin.
7. I shall never forget that the probability of a miracle, though infinitesmally small, is not exactly zero.
8 If at first I don't succeed, there is always next year.
9. I shall always decide not to decide, unless of course I decide to change my mind.
10. I shall always begin, start, initiate, take the first step, and /or write the first word, when I get around to it.
11. I obey the law of inverse excuses which demands that the greater the task to be done, the more significant the work that must be done prior to beginning the greater task.
12. I know that the work cycle is not plan/start/finish, but is wait/wait/plan.
13. I will never put off until tomorrow, what i can forget about forever.
14. I will become a member of the Ancient Order of Two-Headed Turtles(the Procrastinators Society) if they ever get it organized.

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Whats this hype all about????
But even I wish to have one with 1000MB.................

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Are you blogging while on a co.'s payroll?? Think about it again. A few are fired.
Microsoft Fires & Its accomplice??

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Is it really worth shifting to another browser from IE or Netscape? See Use a Better Browser (& this too).
I found Mozilla 1.0 & even Opera7 not worth for taking those pains of shifting from them. The features in new browsers must outperform IE or netscape; & ppl will automatically turn to otheres. NO??? Why people have too many fears from Microsoft. Does Gates & Co. sound really fearful when Gates states that Microsoft is always 18-months away from getting out-of-market?

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This blog will be overflowing soon......